I spent a long time of my life watching movies, Reading books and wondering many things about romance and love.
To be completely honest, female magazines , teen’s TV shows and series didn’t help me AT ALL to grab a boyfriend or to get close to a real relationship. To be honest, the concept of romance ilustraded in many movies, books, magazines and “reality shows” make me laugh in the worst way ever because or it’s completely unreal or completely empyt.
I’m not a teenage anymore, so magazines and twitter’s trend topics hasn’t influence on my decision-making power so, after several heart-breaks, I started to think about it in my own way.
FIRST OF ALL: WHAT’S THE POINT ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS?
Women are not attracted only for fancy cars, mansions, money and hot life styles as in video clips, and also, they aren’t so dramatic, overreacting, depending and needy like in another one’s videos ,books or even fairytales. Fairytales are the most glamorous bullshit I’ve ever heard.
To understand the point about relationships, first I had to understand the kind of woman I’m , and then figure it out the kind of man I want/need to finally open up myself to potential dates/valentines.
I’m not here to judge in any way, but under my point of view, relationships must me comfortable and funny, even when its facing hard times, because the comfort and fun you get from your valentine will make you come back even if it’s so much easier run away and don’t look back.
I want someone to share all part of me, someone to embrace during the night , someone to argue sometimes but also the best intimate conversations ever, someone to tell my secrets and do weird thing I don’t do with no one else but I know this person will understand and let me be like this, someone to be connected, bounded, a person I will miss every day.
Relationships must be simple, like toast with jelly and a cup of tea, simple but always good. I need to find my cup of tea in a man. Admire the beauty of the ordinary is what make difference for me ; of course spend a night in a hotel in Paris is lovable, but nothing compares to lay down at the living room’s floor with the windows opened and see the stars or the sun raise with someone you love, just starting a brand new day … with this person.
I want this in a relationship, for me, this is what make a couple last for 50 years or more together, this is what keep people united by feelings, this is what make extraordinary the ordinary life of many people who decided be together in a romantic way : Admiring and enjoying their simple and comfort relation of love.